Paradigm

This Program is an Advanced Module of the Inner Child Work Facilitators Training. In this Training Program:

• You will work on healing your ancestral patterns
• You will receive enough wisdom for:

• Giving individual consultations
• Dealing with transgenerational influences on the inner child
• Helping organizations to unblock negative influences from their past

Principle

Family Constellations: Transgenerational Healing program integrates Family Constellation Work into Inner Child Work, thus taking Inner Child Work to the next level and making it more complete by including Transgenerational Healing.

Introduction to Family Constellation Work

“If you look deeply into the palm of your hand, you will see your parents and all generations of your ancestors. All of them are alive in this moment. Each is present in your body. You are the continuation of each of these people.” — Thich Nhat Hanh

The science of epigenetics is rapidly proving that we carry the past within us. The research that is emerging demonstrates that environmental factors, stress, and trauma that occur in one generation are passed on to its descendents. In Family Constellations we observe how this inheritance shows up in the form of problems faced by the descendents. We notice that out of love, empathy and the simple need to survive our birth and childhood we accept and behave in the “right way” in order to belong to our family. We take on its history and often its fate. We thus carry many patterns from the generations that preceded us in our family tree. Transgenerational patterns are a very important factor that affects the ‘Child Within’.

While working with thousands of family systems for over 50 years, German psychotherapist, philosopher and author Bert Hellinger discovered age-old, hidden “Orders of Love” that operate in the depths of family organisms. Violation and disrespect of these natural laws due to tragic circumstances and unconscious behavior in the earlier generations affect the lives of later members of the family. Hellinger observed that many of us unconsciously “take on” destructive familial patterns of anxiety, depression, anger, guilt, aloneness, alcoholism and even illness as a way of “belonging” in our families. Bonded by a deep love, a child will often sacrifice his own best interests in a vain attempt to ease the suffering of a parent or other family member.

Exploring the dynamics in our family systems can help us to heal and transform our lives.  Family Constellations are a powerful form of body, mind and spirit healing that reveal the hidden dynamics in family systems. They create a model or map of the family system that discloses the deeper forces that unknowingly influence our thoughts, behaviors and emotional experiences.

FAMILY CONSTELLATION is a group process that enables us to break these patterns so that we can live healthier, happier, more fulfilled lives. In a moment of insight, a new life course can be set in motion. Family Constellation Work brings about TRANS-GENERATIONAL HEALING, which helps us to understand and clear many of the common blocks to personal and spiritual growth.

Objectives

The course will help you to:

1. Heal your ancestral patterns
2. Making peace with your ancestors
3. Achieve inner healing and transformation
4. Free your inner child from transgenerational influences
5. Learn how to deal with issues related to health, transgenerational patterns etc.
6. Receive training that equips you with advanced skills and knowledge about inner child healing

Target Audience

This very intensive workshop on soul-journey and self-discovery is a must for:

• Individuals who seek to discover their authentic selves completely devoid of all illusions and pretences and bring about a complete transformation thereby manifesting their highest potential
• Teachers and people who are interested in working with children and helping them to grow spiritually
• Therapists and healers who wish to empower themselves so that they are able to design each healing session to suit the specific needs of the individual and guide them towards total fulfillment at all levels

Prerequisite

Any Two-Day Workshop by Dr. Newton Kondaveti is the Prerequisite for this Training Program. Therefore, only those who have already attended it are eligible to attend this Training Program.

Syllabus

1. Principles and Practice of Systemic Constellation Work
2. Important concepts from Family Constellations
   A) The Therapeutic Stance
   B) Levels of Feeling
   C) “Orders of Love”
   D) Orders of Precedence
   E) Fate versus Free Will
   F) Blind Love, Enlightened Love
   G) The Morphogenetic Field
3. Sutras of Family Constellations
4. Parents and Children
   A) Daddy’s Girls and Mama’s Boys
   B) The Interrupted Bond
   C) Forgiveness versus Agreement
5. Limits of Conscience
   A) Three Levels of Conscience
   B) Guilt and Innocence
   C) Bonding and Belonging
   D) The Balance of Giving and Taking
6. Identification with Previous Generations
   A) Success and Failure
   B) Freedom and Emptiness
   C) Systemic Messages
7. Adult Relationships
   A) Working with Singles and Couples
   B) Weight in Relationships
   C) Aloneness and Failed Relationships
   D) Divorce
   E) Forced separation of couples owing to racial, religious or cultural reasons
   F) Anyone who was forced into the role of black sheep of the family, was disowned by the family or was ousted from the family
8. Trauma and the Body
   A) Somatic Integration
   B) Working with Illness: Serious illnesses such as cancer, AIDS, or repetitive illness patterns in the family
9. Psychiatric illness
   A) Depression
   B) Anxiety and Panic Disorders
   C) Fears and Phobias
   D) Self-Injury
   E) Eating Disorders
10. Sexual and Reproductive Disorders
11. Honouring the dead
    A) Early death of parents or grandparents
    B) Accidental deaths, murders, victims of war
12. Abortions, miscarriages, stillbirths, infant deaths
13. Cases of adoption
14. Trauma and the Family System
15. Working with Children
16. Integrating Splits
17. Perpetrators and Victims
18. The Effects of War
19. The Effects of Past Lives
20. “Movements of the Spirit-Mind”
    A) The Dimensional Reframe
    B) Reconciliation versus Resolution
21. The Weight of Words and Healing sentences
22. Letting go of transgenerational influences on the inner child and healing the wounded child
23. Resolutions in Individual Sessions
24. Integration of personal and professional work, supervision and practice

Methodology

All of these topics will be dealt with in detail through lectures combined with highly interactive sessions. Knowledge about Family Constellations and Transgenerational healing will be imparted through Presentations and Narrations. The following experiential sessions individually and in groups will reinforce the concepts:

1. Individual processes

2. Group processes

3. Constellations

4. Meditations

A CERTIFICATE OF COMPLETION from the Life Research Academy will be issued at the end of one year after submitting 5 group Constellations and 5 individual Constellations and also passing the online test.

Outcome
1. Healing the inner child from unknown influences coming from ancestors

2. Gaining deeper insights about family dynamics

3. Healing and Transformation

4. Each one is going to learn how to set up the constellation in a group and also work at an individual level by using figurines.